I start to question why they would want to date me, what if I make a fool of myself, what if I’m too nervous and a hundred other ‘what if’ scenarios that make no sense.
Obviously if someone asked me on a date they want to date me, but my brain enjoys irrational theorising and that can ruin the whole experience.
C., a certified life and relationship coach as well as director at the Relationship Firm. C., a certified life and relationship coach as well as director at the Relationship Firm.
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When the date actually comes around I don’t enjoy it because of all the ways I’ve ruined it in my head.