But I’m talking about dating here, not sleeping with anyone. Because the thing is that if you’re not dating exclusively, if the guy you’d really like to be exclusive with knows that he’s in the running but there’s others that you’re still considering too, that puts him in the best position possible – one where he has to prove to you that he’s worth going exclusive for.
And that also keeps you in a place of high self-esteem and confidence knowing that if he really has that much potential you’ll know before giving too much of your self to someone too early, before you really know them well enough to make that kind of commitment.
Well according to a new study, the average Brit needs to go on NINE successful dates with a new beau before deciding if they're ready to settle down.
Believe me, he will not be turned off by you dating more men than just him.
What he is competitive enough to know that he wants to show you why you should drop the others and become exclusive to him.
WE' VE all been there: things are going really well between you and the person you've just started dating and you're wondering when you should have "the chat".
You know, the one where you define your relationship and decide whether to become exclusive with each other.
What's more, although British singletons are more likely to take it slow when entering into a new relationship, the average homeowner will commit to buying a new house after just four visits to the property.